By Tamsin Thoren
“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.”
~ Seneca – Roman Philosopher
I have a very simple ritual that I have practiced each New Year for several years. I write down my intentions for the coming year; yes, it’s that simple. I include other practices and ceremony along with and surrounding this ritual. The core of the practice, however, is the writing down of intentions. Those intentions chart out a roadmap for my heart and soul that will guide my actions throughout the coming year. I share this practice with my partner and we support each other in holding space for realization of each other’s unfolding.
The intentions may include short-term goals or long-term goals that may not be completed in the coming year. They may be simple little things like drinking enough water or they may be grand goals like completing a training or opening a business. Perhaps the intentions are quite concrete, as in the examples given, or perhaps they are intangible intentions like opening up to more love, finding balance, or discovering greater peace. Whatever is in my heart, whatever comes up as I write my list of intentions is always perfect.
Before I write my intentions, I make the space to become clear, to allow something greater than myself to drop in and offer inspiration. Perhaps I’ll do a deep clean on my house or fix something that needs repair. I use the cleaning and repair process as a moving meditation and let it be a reflection of some part of myself. I usually retreat into nature for a few days, away from the sights and sounds of my everyday life and give my body the gift of a year-end cleanse. If I don’t have the time or space to get away, I’ll take a yoga class and/or meditate with the intention of allowing my heart to sing forth it’s deepest desires for the future. I always choose beautiful paper and good quality pens to make the practice more enjoyable and special.
I return to my list of intentions throughout the year; it can be like an anchor that connects me to hopes and dreams. In those moments when I may wonder why I am working so hard on something or making sacrifices in an area of my life, my list of intentions reminds me of the destination I am approaching. It can also be a time of reflection in which I realize my intentions have changed and I no longer wish to continue on a particular path. I may add to the list or I may cross off items that have been completed or are no longer relevant.
Sometime around the Winter Solstice I will again contemplate that year’s list. I reflect upon my accomplishments; give thanks for the blessings, guidance, and support I have received in bringing my intentions to fruition; and reflect upon those things that I am still working on. I write those intentions that I wish to carry over onto the new list for the coming year, and on New Year’s Eve, before creating my new list of intentions, I burn last year’s list to signify the end of one cycle.
There is something so powerful in this simple act of reflection and writing out my intentions. I honor and release the past, become rooted in the present, and create a road map for the future. The burning of last year’s list feels like a clean break, a fresh start; it is sort of like rebooting my internal computer. I let go of the past year and become focused on new goals. It is a recognition of the cycles of the natural world that continue endlessly whether or not we take notice. One more revolution around the sun as we move with the Earth in it’s never ending journey.
May your new year be filled with love, joy, peace, and blessings beyond your wildest dreams.
YDM: What brought you to Yoga Del Mar?
"The hand is not so well adorned by ornaments as by charitable offerings." ~Chanakya
In the dark aliveness of the rainforest at night, were first greeted in the house of ritual, where after long conversations by candlelight we laid open our intentions and our hearts to Tzama, the community's charismatic and powerful leader, who also did the same. After this we were welcomed into the family compound with burnt orange facepaint, made from the dye of furry seedpods, which signified we were now initiated and welcome as guests. Over the next four days, we began teaching and empowering the youth of the village through media arts: digital video, photography, recording, and mastering. We had a very simple objective: to inspire the youth to be record keepers of their own history, and in doing so teach them skills they could continue after our departure.
JL: Actually, It was late January or early February (can't quite remember!) of 2009 when I came for my first class. I saw a coupon – I think in the Carmel Valley News – for a free class. I had been trying some yoga tapes at home for a month or so and quite a while ago tried a little ashtanga yoga for a few months. Also, my sister (she lives in Santa Fe, NM) had just started taking at an Anusara Yoga studio there was was telling me how great it was. I was definitely interested in yoga as a form of exercise, but I was also very interested in yoga as a spiritual path. I had read Stephen Cope's book "Yoga and the Quest for the True Self" and was really at the beginning of trying to get away from just our "western" perception of yoga as exercise and discover yoga in its fullness. I went to the Anusara website, typed in my zip, and up came YDM! So, there I was, with a free class coupon, encouragement from my sister, a basic love of exercise, and a yearn for spiritual development. Everything just fell in to place. Bet you wished you hadn't asked!!!